This thread is related to my recent encounter with an ex. She was my former girlfriend but we had lost contact when she married and I also raised a family of my own. After 40 years, she found me on Facebook and I accepted her as a friend. The chat was casual at first until she started reminiscing. And then she invited me for a casual meeting, a lunch date. But since I had some apprehension, I avoided the topic. Later on, she was pointing towards a meeting in a motel or a hotel. That she would be the one to spend huh. What would you do if you are in my place?